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I just saw "She Hate Me" and I'm compelled to ask two questions:  

Question #1. What's your take on the depiction of African-American negative sexual stereotypes in entertainment? Do those stereotypes reinforce any of your personal beliefs.

Question #2. Do you believe that sexuality is a gift from God or a curse from Satan. Has there been any films you've seen that have promoted sexuality as a gift from God that we need not be ashamed of?

(2004) Film Review by Chris Utley

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CREDITS

Directed by Spike Lee

Writers
Screenplay by Michael Genet
Story by Michael Genet and Spike Lee

Producers
Preston L. Holmes ... producer
Spike Lee ... producer
Fernando Sulichin ... producer

Cast - in credits order
Anthony Mackie ... Jack Armstrong
Kerry Washington ... Fatima Goodrich
Ellen Barkin ... Margo Chadwick
Monica Bellucci ... Simona Bonasera
Jim Brown ... Geronimo Armstrong
Ossie Davis ... Judge Buchanan
Jamel Debbouze ... Doak
Brian Dennehy ... Chairman Church
Woody Harrelson ... Leland Powell
Ling Bai ... Oni
Lonette McKee ... Lottie Armstrong
Paula Jai Parker ... Evelyn
Q-Tip ... Vada Huff
Dania Ramirez ... Alex Guerrero
John Turturro ... Don Angelo Bonasera
Chiwetel Ejiofor ... Frank Wills

Original Music by Terence Blanchard
Cinematography by Matthew Libatique
Edited by Barry Alexander Brown


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Click to enlargeHarvard, MBA-educated biotech executive John Henry “Jack” Armstrong (Anthony Mackie) gets fired when he informs on his bosses and initiates an investigation into their business dealings by the Securities & Exchange Commission. Branded a whistle-blower and therefore unemployable, Jack desperately needs to make a living. When his former girlfriend Fatima (Kerry Washington), a high powered businesswoman and now a lesbian, offers him cash to impregnate her and her new girlfriend Alex (Dania Ramirez), Jack is persuaded by the chance to make “easy” money. Word spreads and soon Jack is in the baby-making business at $10,000 a tryst. Lesbians with a desire for motherhood and the cash to spare are lining up to seek his services. But, between the attempts by his former employers to frame him for securities fraud and his dubious fathering activities, Jack finds his life, all at once, becoming very complicated.
Review by CHRIS UTLEY, Film Reviewer
Chris received his BA in Theatre from Grambling State University in Louisiana. He is an IT Techie by day and armchair film critic/analyst/lover by night. Upon coming to the Lord in 1994 and learning the Word, Chris began to notice Biblical principles and attributes displayed in Hollywood movies and began to apply them to his own life. It's his passion and mission to show the world (Christians and non-Christians) how to apply these principles to their own lives as well.
 
She Hate Me: A Hollywood Jesus Movie Review by Chris Utley

WARNING: This review contains frequent (but not detailed) discussion of graphic sexual content related to the film. Please use sound judgment and discernment before reading this review.

I’ve said this many times on the message boards here at HJ. We are not sin hunters. It is our responsibility to not condemn the world or its Hollywood films but instead find the redeeming and grace-filled qualities of these films. We believe that our reviews could perhaps point our readers in the direction of the light and life of Christ.

This is not one of those times.

In the words of Tevye in Fiddler on the Roof, when trying to rationalize his daughter’s love for one of the enemies and oppressors of his people, ‘there is no other hand!?

Spike Lee was once a great filmmaker. His late 1980’s through mid-1990’s films including Do The Right Thing, Jungle Fever, and Malcolm X showed the world the strength and diversity of African Americans. His films brought a very large measure of dignity and pride to African Americans. While previous images in American film presented us in a stereotypical and negative light, his films shunned those negative stereotypes and images . . . save one (more on that in a minute).

In She Hate Me, flashes of Lee’s former brilliance are evident. As Jack Armstrong (Anthony Mackie) witnesses a horrible tragedy in his workplace and is forced to act on this tragedy, we see a man holding fast to his convictions and standing up for what is right. As Jack “blows the whistle” on the corrupt practices of his company, and is unjustly punished for it (he’s fired from his job and his assets are frozen -- sounds like Enron, huh?), we look forward with great anticipation to see him be vindicated.

If the film had focused solely on this arc of the story (and there are tons of story arcs), then I’d have no problem recommending the film. Unfortunately, the situation that Armstrong finds himself is merely a setup for the main plot of this film . . .

. . . And that leads me back to those negative stereotypes of African-Americans that I mentioned earlier. The one stereotype of African Americans that has managed to stick with us from the days of slavery onward to the rap videos of today is the one concerning our sexuality. We have constantly been portrayed as oversexed animals with a libido higher than the Empire State Building. The African American male has been depicted as a “buck”: one who has a wanton sexual appetite and can satisfy numerous women in a single bound. His female companion is depicted as a “hot mama sex machine” that will drop her undergarments and get it on with a man before even finding out his name.

This image has found its way to Hollywood films (most notably in the Blaxploitation action films of the 1970?s) and, unfortunately, Spike Lee has bought into this image hook, line and sinker. The film that put him on the map is entitled She’s Gotta Have It. You don’t need to see the film to find out what “It” is. The majority of his subsequent films have all featured at least one highly graphic sexual scene. While Lee’s films may have desired to present reality, these graphic scenes have done nothing more but jolt the viewers.

So, 18 years after She's Gotta Have It, we find Lee continuing his pattern of (unnecessary) graphic sexuality in his latest film. The main plot: While Jack Armstrong is figuring out a way to deal with his unemployment and inability to access his funds, opportunity knocks on his doorstep in the form of his ex-fiancée Fatima (Kerry Washington), now a full-blown lesbian, and her lover Alex (Dania Ramirez). It seems that these two ladies desire to get pregnant and do not want to adopt or go to a sperm bank to do so. Fatima’s big idea: pay Jack $10,000 to impregnate them both . . . with Alex’s bundle of joy coming by way of artificial insemination and Fatima’s bundle of joy coming the old-fashioned way. After all, they were ex-lovers, right?

After wrestling with the decision -- and seeing the $10,000 in cash sitting on his coffee table -- in light of his situation, Jack agrees. Fatima gets another big idea: offer the same service to lesbians all over New York City. Charge them $10,000 each, and she’d get a 10% finders fee. Jack agrees yet again.

Of course, Spike Lee shows no restraint in showing us Jack’s deeds. As we’re being treated to Jack graphically servicing client after client, one stereotype after another is reinforced again and again. If that’s not enough, we are shown a flashback sequence in which Jack finds out that Fatima has a thing for her similar sex -- once again in a near explicit fashion. And, to put the icing on the cake, when Fatima is confronted by Alex about her feelings for Jack, their subsequent makeup will have the brave and crazy viewer wondering if they accidentally walked into a porno flick.

This film is chock full of uplifting messages in the midst of all this madness. We are shown the intimate struggle of Jack’s father, a diabetic (Jim Brown) and his mother’s (Lonette McKee) pain and resentment of his father’s sickness. We are also given a tribute to the security guard who was the catalyst to the Watergate scandal of 30+ years ago. Jack likens his situation to that of the security guard’s life. We find out that, as a result of practically saving the country, his life was destroyed in the process. We’re supposed to empathize with Jack because he looks to be headed down the same road. But we’re so worn out by all of this explicit sexual plundering that we don’t care anymore what happens.

Of course the ending is another unrealistic “They Lived Happily Ever After" Hollywood affair . . . although this ending is particularly out there! When it was over, all I could do is shake my head in amazement. It is clear that Spike has lost his compass. I long for the days of School Daze (which was the primary influence for me choosing a Historically Black College) and Do The Right Thing, when Spike Lee films were cultural events. Those earlier films forced America to examine herself -- to see if this country was living up to its promise as ‘the Land Of Opportunity? for all men.

But after seeing this, I can only hope that it will be Spike Lee will examining himself. Hopefully he can see that it is possible to make positive and relevant African American films without giving in to the need to include graphic sexuality. He is usually the first to point his finger at films that blatantly present African American sexual stereotypes, like Soul Plane, Booty Call, and others. After this film, and considering the body of his work, Spike needs to take that same finger, go to the nearest mirror, and point it at himself.

ONE LAST NOTE:

Many of you will wonder why I, as a believer, would review a film that I know contains graphic sexuality and present the review on this website. Once again, I state that we are not sin hunters. God hates sin -- but He loves sinners. This review was written in the spirit of love. I love Spike Lee as a filmmaker. His films have been some of the greatest influences in my life. His mantra in those earlier days was “Uplift The Race.” I wish for him to return to those days.

It is not my intent that the conservative believers among us would start finding every single film by Spike Lee and condemn them, and him, to eternal hell and damnation. Nor is it my desire that the more liberal believers among us would use this review as an excuse to live in a life that Jesus declared we’re dead to. Instead I hope this review would lead us to pray for Spike Lee and other filmmakers who insist on glorifying sexuality in their films. Prayer is our most effective weapon, not our words. And the Word of God does not condemn sex itself. It is a gift. But through Satan’s acts of perversion throughout the world, this gift has become a curse.

Two things I hope we can do as readers of Hollywood Jesus in light of this review:

Pray for Spike Lee. Ask God to give him the vision to make films to uplift African Americans and the world at large.

Use this review as a tool for discussion of the distortion of sexuality in the world’s society. Let these discussions be a springboard for prayer that God would restore us as nation, removing the curse and perversion now attached sexuality and restoring the gift of sexuality through faith in Christ and commitment to our marriages, our husbands and our wives.
Here is a Round Table discussion on
African-Americans, Sexuality and Movies

between some of the HJ reviewers. Enjoy and join in.
--David Bruce, Host of HollywoodJesus.com
Chris Utley:
I just saw "She Hate Me" and I'm compelled to start another round-table discussion.

Two questions:

Question #1. What's your take on the depiction of African-American negative sexual stereotypes in entertainment? Do those stereotypes reinforce any of your personal beliefs. Please be honest, guys.

(Incidentally, I was supposed to write a review of "Soul Plane" a few months ago but refused to write it in protest of the film's blatant sexual stereotypes).

Question #2. Do you believe that sexuality is a gift from God or a curse from Satan. Has there been any films you've seen that have promoted sexuality as a gift from God that we need not be ashamed of?

Darrel Manson:
Response to #1. You mean like that you bucks all have huge members and go all night long? (Please note that my tongue is firmly planted in cheek with no offense.) Do they reinforce my personal beliefs, no. Do they reinforce and inform the way many people think, more than likely. Does it matter if it is done in a film by someone who just makes entertainment as opposed to someone making serious film? Does it matter if it's done by a white or African-American director? (Translation for all this: What is Spike Lee thinking?!?!?)

Response to <<Incidentally, I was supposed to write a review of "Soul Plane" a few months ago but refused to write it in protest of the film's blatant sexual stereotypes.>>

Ah, that is when you probably should have reviewed it and blasted it. Reviews are not promo pieces; they are analysis and we should say when things are wrong and even sinful.

Response to #2. I most certainly view sexuality as a gift from God. Not sure I can think of a film off the top of my head. Also not sure just how that message would be conveyed.

Maurice G Broaddus:
Response to #2. That was my dilemma, too. You would have to have a married couple who enjoy themselves sexually (while not depicted their sex lives too explicitly, lest we foment lustful thoughts). Sadly, I see this done better in "family" sitcoms (though the husband usually is constantly
begging for it) than in movies.

Chris Utley:
That's why I posed the question. Even with married people, sex in American society is seen as more than a curse than a gift. Think about all the MARRIED men who are begging their wives for it in REAL LIFE!

Remember all the flak Tom and Nicole got regarding their scenes together in "Eyes Wide Shut"? The more I think of my reaction at the time, the more I see how hypocritical I was.

Maurice G Broaddus:
Response to #1.
<<What's your take on the depiction of African-American negative sexual stereotypes in entertainment?>>

Please, first and foremost, understand that I am discussing this point strictly from the point of view of Hollywood, not Christian, standards.

Spike Lee's first film was a movie called She's Gotta Have It, a movie with its main thesis being an exploration of a sexually liberated woman. One of the reasons Spike Lee made that movie was because, even more so at the time, Hollywood was afraid of depicting black people in real sexual relationships. Afraid being the operative word and the only conclusion one could draw considering that Hollywood often turned even their black sex symbols into little more than asexual eunuchs. An example that pops into my mind, don't ask me why, is the movie The Pelican Brief. In that movie, Julia Roberts and Denzel Washington fight this grand conspiracy. A typical Hollywood thriller, EXCEPT that the two of them at the end of the movie, barely kiss. Two of the sexiest people in Hollywood, in a thriller, and they barely kiss. It's not that I'm advocating sex in my movies, especially since She's Gotta Have It is a barely watchable piece of film-making. Nor is a forced, in the heat/stress of the moment, relationship good-storytelling. But by Hollywood standards, they should have fallen in love, if not in bed.

She's Gotta Have It (which I have seen), Girl 6, and She Hate Me (neither of the latter I have seen, but they are both Spike Lee films dealing with sexuality) represent the other side of the spectrum. While I like his depictions of black people engaged in real/sexual relationships [Do the Right Thing, Jungle Fever (which I'll come back to in a minute), Mo Better Blues] it should be a tool in a storytelling kit.

What I am getting at is that there aren't enough The Best Man, a romantic comedy featuring an all black cast. There is a market for black romance movies, in fact, it is a market starving to be served.

Chris Utley:
There's been a few flicks along the lines of "The Best Man" including "Deliver Us From Eva", "Two Can Play That Game", "The Brothers", and, most recently, "Breakin All The Rules". That market is being served ...however the $$$ ain't quite ringing in ...mostly because of the bootleg market.

Maurice G Broaddus:
The problem is that black sexuality is too often defined by rap videos. The mentality of video hos only after money and men who are little more than dogs in heat defining their masculinity and success by cars and conquered women has infected too much of black culture period.

I don't have time for modern day minstrel shows passing themselves off as entertainment. I'm not saying that She Hate Me, or Soul Plane for that matter, fall into this assessment, but I am saying that we (and by "we" I mean black people) need to be conscientious of the images that we put up of ourselves, because Hollywood, at best, will take its cues from us.

In response to Chris Utley <<Do those stereotypes reinforce any of your personal beliefs. Please be honest, guys.>>

Back to Jungle Fever. One of the themes of the movie was exploring whether or not interracial relationships were based strictly on curiosity about sexual stereotypes. Its conclusion seemed to be (I say "seemed" because its thesis was muddied by the issue of adultery) that relationships formed on the stereotypes were doomed to fail, but those based on people seeing each other as people have the potential to work. And, it depicted sexuality as both a positive and negative force, depending on how it was used. Between Wesley Snipes' character and his wife, sex was a source of joy, pleasure, and in the end of the movie, healing. When his character had sex outside of marriage (regardless of the color of the woman he was having sex with, thus the muddying of the interracial aspect of the film), sex was a destructive force. For the marriage. For both the involved's family. For their respective communities.

I mention this because I am married to a white woman. And while these stereotypes don't reinforce any of my personal beliefs, they do make me especially sensitive to them. Don't get me wrong, if you want complete honesty, some stereotypes concerning black men you won't exactly see me starting a protest against. But I am against minstrelsy as entertainment, even if it is by "us" for "us".

Taking it out of the realm of sexuality, I'll mention the Dave Chappelle Show. Or, Chris Rock. Both are brilliant comedians whose shows have left me on the ground, in tears, from laughter. If you take their comedy correctly, either can be a springboard into real discussions about race relations. Taken incorrectly, well, let's just say the last thing I need after a long day is a white guy thinking that he can be a writer for either comedian.

Chris Utley:
Good stuff.

Lyn Mellone:One question I had for you Chris, after I read the review, was whether there's any possibility that the director was trying to be deliberately facetious and you just "took it the wrong way"? I guess it's just that from your description, the flaunting of sexuality sounded as if it was too far over the top to be taken seriously. But then maybe I'm still too naive!

I believe that the Bible makes it clear that sexuality is a gift from God that has been corrupted by Satan. The Enemy is always out to pervert "every good gift and every perfect gift" from above, which "cometh down from the Father of lights."

Maurice G Broaddus:
The problem that we will run into, the buzzsaw, is whether or not sexuality, right or wrong, NEEDS to be depicted. I believe that sex scenes are necessary only if they are germane to the story that is being told. For example, the sex scenes in Jungle Fever were absolutely necessary. Think of putting the story of David and Bathsheba in a movie. You kind of miss the point of the story if the two of them don't have sex. Then, I think people often confuse the "are sex scenes needed" argument with "how graphic do they need to be" which is another argument entirely.

I am off this week to a horror convention called HorrorFind. One of the things that I will be doing is moderating a panel discussion on "African American Writers in Horror." We'll be discussing the lack of black writers as well as the lack of catering to a black audience. Someone e-mailed me to tell me that such a panel wasn't necessary because the market was being served. The problem, as I pointed out to him, was that most the "African American Writers in Horror" would be on the panel (that would be 6) and that the number of black fans represented at the convention could probably be counted on both hands.

I counted five movies that you listed, and I'm sure there's more if either of us sat down to think about it, over the past few years. Now, during the course of one year in Hollywood, how many romantic comedies would you say are released?

The money argument doesn't ring quite true, either. Those movies don't have the same budgets as other romantic comedies (for one reason, they aren't paying the salary of say a Julia Roberts or Renee Zellwiger), so they don't have to pull in as much money to be profitable.

Greg Wright:
Let me offer some white-guy responses.

Response to Chris: <<Do you believe that sexuality is a gift from God or a curse from Satan. Has there been any films you've seen that have promoted sexuality as a gift from God that we need not be ashamed of?>>

First, the sexual appetite, like our other appetites, are natural and healthy when not perverted by unnatural desires. Second, I can't think of a single film that really has promoted sexuality in a healthy manner. (I do think Wings of the Dove genuinely portrayed the bankrupt nature of misdirected sexuality.)

Nobody will buy tickets to see movies about wholly positive treatments of ANY subject, much less sex. Good people simply aren't interesting.

So if you want to make money through film (whether you're black or white or yellow or red or whatever), what you tend to do is compromise (and shuck and jive) in whatever direction the market takes you. And ultimately we're back to audiences. Hollywood will serve up what they buy. And they buy a lot of junk.

Some other misc. notes.

I did think that the sex scenes in Do The Right Thing were pretty gentle and erotic without being in-your-face or lascivious. He Got Game, though, was downright pornographic (and I am something of an authority on that subject). I don't remember much about Jungle Fever except how annoying Samuel L. Jackson was (that WAS that one, right?). And I don't remember anything very sexual about Malcolm X, Crooklyn, Clockers or 25th Hour. So I don't know that I would lump Spike in with the worst of them.

Lyn Mellone:
Can't it just be that some people prefer not to be exposed to strong portrayals of sexuality in action? Why should something that God gave us as a private expression of love be comfortable for any of us to watch on screen? Why should we "accept" it as appropriate even when portrayed "tastefully"?

Perhaps there are cultures in which public nudity is accepted and sexual acts are not private, but those are NOT our culture, and whether we see our culture as a product of misguided Christianity is not the issue. I don't believe that filmmakers put "private acts" on film because they are necessary for the story being told; it has a lot more to do with money than anything else. Like Greg said, "Nobody will buy tickets to see movies about wholly positive treatments of ANY subject, much less sex."

If we want to talk about exploitation, let's not forget the simultaneous trivializing and sensationalizing of this most precious of gifts. According to my Bible, God tells us "We carefully protect from the eyes of others those parts that should not be seen" (1 Cor 12:23 LB) or "Our unseemly parts or those unsuitable for exposure are treated with seemliness (modesty and decorum)." (Amplified)

Maurice G Broaddus:
Response to Lyn: <<Can't it just be that some people prefer not to be exposed to strong portrayals of sexuality in action?>>

It can very much simply be that. I, for one, prefer not to be exposed to long, drawn out, or gratuitous sex scenes. But at the same time, it seems that we are drawing a line in the sand that we don't make (and maybe we should) with profanity or violence. It's not like I long for either of those, but, like a sex scene, it might be necessary to the story or to define a character.

Response to Lyn: <<I don't believe that filmmakers put "private acts" on film because they are necessary for the story being told; it has a lot more to do with money than anything else.>>

I don't think that I buy that argument. It has been well documented, and Hollywood is very cognizant of the fact, that rated R movies (much less NC-17) don't make as much money. In fact, it was a big deal that last year so many rated R movies were launched over the summer for that very reason, and the main reason was because they were sequels to well established movies. But, if you dissect the number one grossing movie of all time, Titanic, what do you have? A sex scene that isn't necessarily "tasteful", but does define the characters idea of love and a gratuitous nude scene, which while "tasteful" is nevertheless gratuitous.

Don't get me wrong, it's not that I even necessarily disagree with you. Sex (scenes) are rarely handled in a way that denotes their preciousness as a gift from God. And I use the word "rarely" in a "I can't think of a time when they've done this off the top of my head" sort of way. But, I will always argue the point that sometimes they really are necessary to propell the story or define a character.

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