So
I’m sitting here with my wife, watching this show for at least
the seventh or eighth time without really meaning to, and I start
thinking: I like this show. It works. It’s not as if I plan
to watch it, but it’s on Sunday night when there’s nothing
else to do, and so it just sort of happens, and . . . I guess I’m
saying that I’m all right with that.
So
then I start thinking: but why does this show work so well? Isn’t
it just another reality show? Isn’t it just a big Sears
commercial in disguise? Maybe. Or could it be that it works so
well because it reinforces a whole bunch of popular and deeply
held beliefs, without our necessarily knowing it? Popular and
deeply held beliefs? What beliefs?
Belief
1: Cinderella could really happen.
People
like the underdog. This TV series picks underdogs, weekly, and
makes them instant winners. The recipients of the “makeover”
see their house go from rags to riches in the matter of an hour.
And you know, if it can happen to those people on ABC, maybe it
could happen to me.
Belief
2: Good things happen to good people.
The
subjects of EM:HE aren’t just
underdogs, they’re almost invariably good people—people
who help others, who value family, who are trying their hardest,
but just can’t get ahead. This show gives them that helping
hand, thus exhibiting that there is justice in the universe.
Belief
3: Individuality is important.
Not
only are the subjects of this show good underdogs, they’re
also interestingly unique people, just like you and me. A member
of one family loves music. Another loves cars. Another wants to
be a firefighter. Another loves a certain color. And the “design
team” of the show takes these individualities into account,
values them, and acts on them when building the family’s
new house. Individuality is important.
Belief
4: It’s good to do good to others.
Really,
this is the basis of the whole show—doing something nice
for someone else. And why? Just because. Just because it’s
nice, and you should do so.
Belief
5: Hard work pays off.
The
designers, construction workers, et al., who work on the houses
for this show, work very hard. They have one week to finish the
entire house, and often (thanks, no doubt, to creative editing
of the footage) come close to not finishing in time. But when
that family returns to see the end result . . . all that hard
work seems like nothing.
Belief
6: Be thankful for what you have.
When
the house is finished, the families are thankful. Very thankful.
But beyond the expected gratitude, there always remains a sense
that the families would’ve been all right, even without
the new home. There’s always a sense that the families were
happy anyway, because they invariably valued what they already
had.
These,
at least, are the beliefs I see being affirmed by Extreme
Makeover: Home Edition. There are more, I’m
sure—just now, in fact, belief in the importance of family
and home come to mind. And yes, I know that ABC makes it all come
across this way. I know that the show is designed to have these
themes. But you know, I’m all right with that. I’m
comfortable with television’s role as “purveyor of
cultural identity”—especially in instances like this,
where I’m not being identified as something I’m not.
In
other words, I already hold these beliefs, so I don’t mind
watching a show that bandies them about and reinforces them. And
I also am not threatened by the idea that I hold these beliefs,
precisely because of television’s role. In fact, I hold
these beliefs for reasons that have nothing to do with ABC, or
TV, or the culture at large. I hold them because they’re
all extrapolations of biblical principles—and the point
is, I like shows about biblical principles. Maybe that’s
why the show works so well . . . maybe lots of people, knowingly
or not, like that kind of show.