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BRIDGET
JONES'S DIARY
Loneliness,
far from being a rare and curious phenomenon, is the central and
inevitable fact of human existence
--Reviews
By Kim Yarmuch,
David Bruce,
and Janette Kok
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(2001)
This page was created on March 13, 2001
This page was last updated on
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Directed by Sharon Maguire
Writing credits: Richard Curtis, Andrew Davies and Helen Fielding
Novel by Helen Fielding
Ren?e
Zellweger .... Bridget Jones
Colin Firth .... Mark Darcy
Hugh Grant .... Daniel Cleaver
Honor Blackman .... Penny Crispin
Bonham-Carter .... Greg
Jim Broadbent .... Colin Jones
James Callis .... Tom
Embeth Davidtz .... Natasha
Shirley Henderson .... Jude
Celia Imrie .... Una Alconbury
Gemma Jones .... Pam Jones
Sally Phillips .... Sharon "Shazzer"
Produced
by Tim Bevan (producer), Jonathan Cavendish (producer), Eric Fellner
(producer), Peter McAleese (line producer)
Cinematography by Stuart Dryburgh
Rated
R for language and some strong sexuality.
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Discover
for yourself that there is a little Bridget Jones in all of us.
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STUDIO
SYNOPSIS:
Based
on Helen Fielding's international best-seller Bridget Jones's Diary,
Golden Globe winner Renee Zellweger (Nurse Betty, Jerry Maguire)
stars in the title role as the dynamic, irrepressible and outrageously
original Bridget Jones.
At
the start of the New Year, 32-year-old Bridget decides it's time
to take control of her life?and start keeping a diary. Now, the
most provocative, erotic and hysterical book on her bedside table
is the one she's writing. With a taste for adventure, and an opinion
on every subject?from exercise to men to food to sex and everything
in between?she's turning the page on a whole new life.
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BRIDGET
JONES'S DIARY
Review by David Bruce
"Loneliness, far from being a rare and
curious phenomenon ... is the central and inevitable fact of human
existence."
-- Thomas Clayton Wolfe
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WE
ARE ALL ALONE IN BIRTH AND DEATH.
It was Emily Carr who observed, "You come into the world alone
and you go out of the world alone. Yet it seems to me you are more
alone while living than even going and coming." Bridget Jones's
Diary is about this kind of loneliness. The scene of Bridget walking
all alone on the city streets in the midst of winter symbolizes what
the film is all about. The chilling numbing sense of being all by
one's self, even in the midst of a city. "Cannot the heart in
the midst of crowds feel frightfully alone?" (Charles Lamb). |
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PROFOUND
SADNESS
Loneliness can be a frightful thing. Even highly popular Albert
Einstein once remarked, "It is strange to be known so universally
and yet be so lonely." And John Milton once said, "Loneliness
is the first thing that God?s eye nam?d not good.
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DEPRESSED
AND LONELY
Bridget takes comfort in her womb like room surrounded by her food,
books, and private thoughts. Tennessee Williams once said, "We?re
all sentenced to solitary confinement inside our own skins, for life."
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LOOKING
TO FILL THE VOID
So what does Bridget do to eliminate her loneliness? Men!
She seeks out men. But, Anton Pavlovich Chekhov was right on when
in stating "If you are afraid of loneliness, don?t marry."
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GETTING
INTO SHAPE,
AND GOING ON LINE
Bridget seeks to get into shape, lose weight, and go on line, and
be generally available to men. It
is so sad indeed, the lengths we will go through to overcome our loneliness.
As Erich Fromm once wrote, "The deepest need of man is the need
to overcome his separateness, to leave the prison of his aloneness." |
 MEN
DON'T ELIMINATE LONELINESS
Bridget soon learns that men are not what they appear. And again,
Bridget soon learns that men are not what they appear. And again,
Bridget soon learns that men are not what they appear. And
again, Bridget soon learns that men are not what they appear. And
again, Bridget soon learns that men are not what they appear. And
again, Bridget soon learns that men are not what they appear. And
again, Bridget soon learns that men are not what they appear. And
again, Bridget soon learns that men are not what they appear. |
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COUNTER
REVIEW BY JANETTE KOK
IT
IS A NATURAL THING
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Your
review focuses only on the negatives, that Bridget's fear of being
alone drives her into unhealthy relationships with men. She is certainly
more desperate for male attention and affection than is healthy.
On the other hand, it is natural that a young woman wants to meet
a young man, fall in love, and get married. On that level, Bridget
is living out the desire God planted in most people to find a life's
partner. Her methodology (making herself sexually available for
exploitation) is faulty. Her motivation (desiring a life partner
who loves her) is just fine. Mark Darcy's statement to Bridget that
he likes her just the way she is makes him the right choice, because
he's not requiring her to compromise herself to meet his selfish
needs, he's offering her unconditional love. She grows in self-respect
through the movie, so that she is able to turn down the manipulative,
self-centered man and finally turn to the man who quietly offers
her respect and friendship as well as romantic love.
The
self-loathing aspects of Bridget's personality -- her obsession
with her weight and appearance, her striving to recreate herself
in the image that the media promotes -- are the objects of satire
in this movie, which means that the underlying message of the film
is against those self-destructive tendencies. Making people (especially
women) laugh at qualities in Bridget that they recognize from their
own experiences encourages them not to continue to be bound by those
qualities.
Yes,
there is a sadness in the portrayal of Bridget, because there is
a sadness in all good comedy. The laughter is an antidote to the
things that make us sad; the laughter helps us leave those things
behind. Bridget Jones's Diary, in my opinion, is skillful comedy
subverting the values that lead lonely women into harmful relationships
with self-centered men. Bridget's sexuality does not offend me;
although Christians accept that we must reserve sex for the marriage
relationship, Bridget's desire for sex is no different than our
own. The bawdy and earthy elements of the screenplay did not bother
me; God created us embodied creatures, and we ought to get all the
joy we can out of our bodies, within God's wise guidelines that
keep us from harm and exploitation. I am much more offended by the
violence in many movies in which HJ finds merit than by the sexual
misconduct in this movie, which at least springs from relational
qualities built into humanity at creation. Bridget's longing for
a man who is willing to make a commitment is God-given; it's the
desire God planted in Adam, which made him exclaim with delight
when he met Eve: At last! Here is flesh of my flesh and bone of
my bone. I was happy to see Bridget at last end up with a man who
delighted her and whom she in turn delighted.
By
the way, Bridget Jones's Diary is hung on the basic plotline of
Pride and Prejudice, by Jane Austen, a nineteenth century author
who had a thoroughly Christian vision of human relationality. It's
not actually biblical for this review to hint that lonely people
should not seek to meet their emotional needs in human relationships,
particularly marriage, but should spiritualize it into creativity
or devotion to God. Those are good things, too, and we should devote
our energies to them. But God did create us beings who long for
each other's companionship, and he gave us each other as companions.
The fact that Bridget has sexual longings for men and that she is
seeking for one man to establish a loving sexual relationship with
is a virtue, not a flaw, of this movie.
Janette Kok
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REBUTTAL
REVIEW BY KIM YARMUCH
TWO
HALVES DON'T MAKE A WHOLE
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I think
the point is that two halves don't make a whole. If we are looking
to find completion in someone else, we'll be very disappointed.
Bridget could just never seem to find herself, even at close to
40, and that made me suspicious of even the good choice she made
in the end. She definitely grew throughout the story, but was she
really ready?
If
we are looking for companionship and a person with whom to share
all we "already" have, that's a different thing. Desiring
romantic love is absolutely healthy and normal, but looking for
completion in another human being is just bound to end in disappointments.
I know I could never meet all of a man's needs, but I think I could
sure increase and contribute to the happiness he already has.
And
yes, the Pride and Prejudice tie-ins are wonderful! Remember, Jane's
heroines were always very self-aware and complete in themselves
- especially Elizabeth Bennett - which is certainly what God intends
(Proverbs 31).
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THERE
IS A POSITIVE SIDE TO BEING ALONE.
Most
of the world?s great souls have been lonely.
-- A. W. TOZER (1897?1963)
Shakespeare,
Leonardo da Vinci, Benjamin Franklin, and Lincoln . . . were not
afraid of being lonely because they knew that was when the creative
mood in them would work.
--CARL
SANDBURG (1878?1967)
Pray
that your loneliness may spur you into finding something to live
for, great enough to die for.
-- DAG HAMMARSKJ?LD (1905?1961)
For
each, God has a different response. With every person God has a
secret?the secret of a new name. In every one there is a loneliness,
an inner chamber of peculiar life into which God only can enter.
-- GEORGE MACDONALD (1824?1905)
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MATES
COMPLEMENT
Subject: Mates Bridget_Joness_Diary
Date: Tue, 1 May 2001
From: withy
It's
not that we need someone to complete us. We are already created
complete, whether we've discovered it or not. We do seek someone
to complement us. Opposites attract for a purpose--opposite personalities
will always be drawn to each other consciously or subconsciously.
If we wait until we have fully discovered everything within ourselves,
we will be too old to have children! What person in their 20's really
knows what they are all about or capable of? God intended us to
complement each other by one's strengths covering for the other's
weaknesses, to help each other grow, and to grow together. Unconditional
love is necessary for this to work. And the best way to know if
it is unconditional is to NOT have sex before marriage!
BRIDGET
JONES AND BRITISH BLIND FAITH
Subject: Bridget Jones
Date: Sun, 29 Apr 2001
From: "Jon Zuck"
I
saw BJD last night, and thought that this is one of the saddest
comedies I've encountered in a very long time, possibly since "Four
Weddings and a Funeral," another British romantic comedy. Non-romantic
British comedies can be uproarious, but the romantic British comedy
nowadays seems to be a optimistic look at personal tragedy.
Yet
I don't sense the same sense of shatteredness in American romantic
comedies, such as "Keeping the Faith," or "Forces of Nature," as
recent examples. Is it that Hollywood cannot deal with the multitudinous
aspects of love, including pain, in a comedy? That an American director
will inevitably shy away from a realistic touch of a character's
loneliness? Or do the British treat characters more realistically?
Or is there something about the British culture that demands romance
not be considered pure joy? Are Yanks shallower and Brits deeper?
I
think the answer lies elsewhere. I'm going to really stick my neck
out here, and let me say at the outset that I am an American, so
this may well be my bias and misinformation, but here goes.
I
believe the difference is God, or more correctly the impact of God
upon cultural religions of America vis-a-vis Britain. We Americans
tend to be believers. We're not necessarily Christians, followers,
or even good people, but we are believers, down to 94-96% of the
population. We excuse our sins, we run from God, we deny Him, but
we know in our hearts where to turn for forgiveness.
I
have read that belief in God is at a much lower level in the UK.
Undoubtedly there is tremendous faith in the faithful of the land,
but is belief is God as prevalent there? Do the majority of people
sense that He/She is there and can be turned to in time of trouble?
I don't know, but I think this may be a clue to differences I see
in the romantic comedies of these two cultures.
For
instance, in Four Weddings and a Funeral, the Church has virtually
no impact on any of the characters; in spite of the funeral and
all the weddings taking place in the Church. The only focus on a
priest is as nervous buffoon, and none of the main characters make
a single reference to God. In Bridget Jone's Diary, Bridget is lost,
and neither friends, food, sex, booze can give her any comfort.
If she cannot marry, she sees herself doomed to a lifetime of unhappy
spinsterhood. There is no intimation that a single character in
the movie has, or knows of, a spiritual life, a sustaining grace
or a Supreme Being.
This
is clearly different from the viewpoints of movies like Keeping
the Faith and Forces of Nature. In the former, even if romance doesn't
pan out, the priest and the rabbi still have God, and the girl still
has her sense of self-worth, and a new-found faith. In the latter,
an unseen hand acts to join two people together. Despite some (lighthearted)
portrayals of pain, doubt, boozing, confusion and loneliness, there's
still a feeling that, as the British mystic Julian of Norwich said,
"God's in his heaven, and all's right with the world."
--- Shalom v'Tovah,
Jon Zuck Web
URL: http://surf.to/frimmin
It is more important to love much than to think much. Always do
that which most impels you to love. --St. Teresa of Avila
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